Godly Bachelor Series Part 2 of 3
16 March, 2016
Here (drumroll) is part two of our bachelor series. These men are VERY wonderful and could find someone very quickly if they chose to. Instead, they're waiting on God's timing. Let's ask what they're looking for in Mrs. Right.
M&H: What are some attributes you desire in a future wife?
Bachelor: For me, she has to be able to listen to me and talk about God with me in everything we do. She has to be willing to study the Word of God with or without me. She has to be able to lead people, and the ability to correct me and put me back on track when I lose sight.
M&H: What should a Christian woman be praying for her future husband?
Bachelor: Pray for a man that can rightly divide the word of God, who walks what he preaches, and will not compromise what he believes.
M&H: What, if anything, is the one thing you won't compromise on in finding a spouse?
Bachelor: I will not compromise if she is a not a believer, if she is she doing drugs, or if she's drinking alcohol. The reason for the alcohol is because God is leading me into ministry, and as a "person in ministry," I am not to given over to wine or strong drink (1st Tim 3:3). Now, heads up, not all men hold to this last one.
M&H: What would you say to encourage single Christian women?
Bachelor: You want a man after God, who is on fire, and who wants the best for you both. Men like me look for a woman who is in the word, can hold a biblical conversation, who's strong in what they believe in from a Biblical stand point. We are not looking for a woman who will dress as skimpy or seductively as she can (short skirts, short shorts, etc). If you are dating a man who encourages that stuff, lose him. You are more than what you show, and what men of faith really find attractive is a woman who has the fear of the Lord.
M&H: What Bible verse would you encourage single women to study?
Bachelor: Proverbs 31:10-31. This is very important. Go through the list. This explains a woman with high moral standards. Keep in mind, this is not about a real woman but it is about the virtues of one.
